Three Areas of Neglect in a Pastor’s Life

A really helpful post from Brian Croft today about 3 common areas of neglect in a pastor’s life.

He writes:

“The demands on a pastor are great.  They force every pastor daily to choose what will get his time, and what will not.  I have observed this decision process subtly squeezes out 3 areas that many pastors would admit are not essential, but over a longer period of neglect can have significant harmful effects.”

The three areas are:

1) Lack of sleep

“As wise and discerning as many pastors are, it is amazing the amount of us who think we can function at a high level getting 1-2 hours of sleep less each night than we really need.  There can be a sinful pride at work as we share “4-5 hours of sleep and I’m good.”  All the while, we are grumpy by 6 pm, we are getting sick on a regular basis, and regularly give our families the leftovers in the evenings.  Be honest about how much sleep you really need, then do what you must to get your rest.”

2) Lack of exercise

“This becomes a most noticeable area of neglect when pastors gain a bunch of unnecessary weight.  Yet, regular exercise is not solely for weight management.  Exercise is one of the best natural relievers of stress that exists.  It raises your energy level and is essential for your overall health.  It is amazing how crummy anyone will feel if they ate whatever they desired and rarely exercised.  Because of the level of stress in the typical pastor’s life, this becomes that much more of an essential aspect of the pastor’s life and harmful when neglected.”

3) Lack of spiritual attention to his own’s soul

“Pastors spend so much time having to study for that next sermon, or Bible study.  There is that devotion you must write for the church newsletter, or an article for some journal.  So much of our study and reading time is spent on the tasks of our calling.  Obviously, sermon preparation and thinking through a theological implication for this counseling situation is spiritually fruitful and feeds our souls with the word.

However, I have found there is a need to carve time out where my reading of books and studying of God’s word is done solely to focus on my own soul.  Not a sermon.  Not a teaching.  Not a counseling matter.  We need to make sure we are not just praying for our flock, but a focused time is spent praying for the sake of our own soul.

Because so much of what we do revolves around prayer and the ministry of the word, it is an easy trap to slide into where all we do is prepare to feed others.  Make sure there is a book you are reading, a Psalm you read in the mornings, or a time of prayer in your day that has nothing to do with anything else, except feeding your own soul and communing with Christ.”

Maybe my marathon running days aren’t over yet!